I Traded Orgasms for Organization: My ‘To Do’ List Broke Our Sex Life
7 min readMar 6, 2020
“Everything else gets the best of her while I get the rest of her” is a common complaint I hear from defeated partners at the start of couples therapy. As early as the dating phase, some relationships show warning signs of poor physical or sexual connection. The quality and frequency of sex and intimacy between partners is often hindered by “the list”. Whether one partner…